Occupy Your Family
Posted: November 5, 2011 Filed under: Parenting, Thoughts Leave a comment »Occupy the heart of your family; spend time, be an example, and have presence.
- Time: Without time, quality and quantity time, your family doesn’t know you exist.
- Example: Your vision, your direction, and your actions speak louder than your words or intentions.
- Presence: Your presence speaks love, acceptance, and value.
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Five Strategies to Help Your Kids Hear You
Posted: October 24, 2011 Filed under: Parenting, Thoughts 1 Comment »
I think my parents would be amazed to hear me say I learned something from them. Oh sure, they taught me to make a bed, tie my shoes, and be polite – but what about the truly big things? I actually learned a few of them. Unfortunately, I was about 25 before they sunk in – and had already failed miserably.
My Dad always said, “Don’t wish your life away.” For instance, don’t wish you were 16 so you could drive; don’t wish you were 21 so you can drink; don’t wish you were 25 so your insurance will be cheaper; and so on…. After a lifetime of wishing I was 16, 18, 21, and 25 – I finally figured out what he meant. He was right!
Victimization
Posted: October 3, 2011 Filed under: Parenting, questions, Thoughts Leave a comment »
My parents were victims. My Dad shrugged it off (mostly) and moved on. My Mom never did. She lived a life of pain and depression, and shared her legacy of victimization.
She was a dream-killer, a spoil-sport, and a pessimist. She also had great love and in her desire to help herself, she helped many people. Unfortunately, she was never able to save herself.
