My thoughts on Sunday’s health care vote…
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The passage of The Patient Protection and Affordable Care Act (H.R. 3590), otherwise known as Obamacare, universal healthcare, and other terms, is arguably one of the most controversial issues of our day. To me, it seems like more heat was generated after the passage of the Bill, then before. It also seems that much of the debate has degenerated into name-calling, generalizations, and ignorant statements. This sadly has generated more heat than light.
While I have tried to be a relatively open-minded participant in the discussion, contributing links and observations via Twitter, Delicious, Facebook, and other online media, for the most part it seemed as if those discussions would quickly spiral out of control. More than once I deleted inflammatory comments. Recently, I asked my followers if my contributions had influenced anyone. I only received one response (thank you Brandi!) to the actually question, and then paragraphs of derogatory remarks and hateful speech. Again, I deleted the conversation.
Today, I do not want to debate the merits or concerns of the actual Bill. (feel free to add your opinion to the poll below) I do not want to hear how horrible the passage of this legislation is to us as a country. I also don’t want to hear high praises for the changes coming in 2014 (when the law is fully implemented). Instead, I want to talk a little about how we, generally, as individuals, and groups, process ideas and communicate. If you start commenting, please don’t try to debate the actual healthcare Bill. I will moderate comments freely. This post isn’t about healthcare, freedom, taxes, poverty, or partisans. This post is about how we filter ideas and how those filters keep us from communicating clearly.
First of all, let me say this straight up, we, as a people, did a horrible job of cooperating, communicating, and building common-unity in this issue. For the most part, we shouted at each other, but failed to take other’s viewpoints into consideration. As a country, if I were to give us a grade, I’d say we get a D-minus. The polarization that we have chosen, yes, chosen, is abysmal. Again, let me caution you from throwing stones at those who don’t agree with you. I don’t believe either side handled this well. Whether liberal, conservative, progressive, pacifist, or libertarian, we all failed. We should be ashamed of ourselves.
Secondly, I believe this is a core issue we have in our society – the lack of good dialog. This is why most relationships fail, because people fail to hear other’s point-of-view. We, as selfish people, tend to put our desire to be right, above the survival of the relationship. My wife doesn’t care a rats bit about how best to back out of the driveway. My pushing her to learn, by pushing logic, only harms the relationship. Instead, I need to expend positive energy to empower her with love, commitment, and affirmation. Churches, especially those with a fundamentalist bent, could learn a few things in this arena too.
“Seek first to understand, then to be understood.” ~Steven Covey
It is my opinion that fear is often at the root of not listening (more than just hearing, but understanding) what the other party is trying to say. Why are we afraid? What harm is there to understanding another person’s point-of-view? Is it time? Are we afraid that there isn’t enough time to hear them out? Are we afraid we will be convinced by their logic? I certainly hope not. I hope our convictions and arguments are not that fragile. So, why won’t we hear each other out? Why do we spend so much energy trying to convince others to think and behave like we do?
However, the bigger question, really, is this: Why can’t we better cooperate and compromise? Do we really have to polarize, divorce, excommunicate, and ostracize? Is this really the culmination of Western Civilization to date? Is this the best we can do?
If anything will bring the demise of America, it will be our inability to communicate. Irreconcilable differences are the cause of many marriage failures in the US. Doesn’t it seem like this could also be the cause of the demise of our country?
So, What Have I Learned from the Debate?
(Below I’d like to share my generalized observations. These don’t apply to everyone – and I’m not hear to debate the merits of the various arguments. This is my last warning.)
Here are the fears/arguments I’ve heard from The Left (for lack of a better term):
- Good people, through no fault of their own, are lacking adequate healthcare.
- Working “poor” families, good people, are suffering financial ruin because of healthcare costs.
- Without this legislation, we are being unmerciful and uncaring.
Here are some of the fears/arguments I’ve heard from The Right (again, for lack of a better term):
- It isn’t the Government’s responsibility to provide charity, that is the role of the Church.
- We are enabling people who are too lazy to work, illegal immigrants, and creating a welfare state.
- One word: socialism.
- This is the abrogation of the American freedoms as we’ve come to know them.
- It is very difficult to develop protocols to discern the truly needy form the system-abusers. In my role as a paramedic, and in my role as a pastor, I’ve seen a lot of people who abuse the System. I’ve also seen a lot of people who were truly deserving of a break – financial, social, medical, etc. On first glance, it can be difficult to tell the difference. Generally speaking, it is a bell-curve. Though there are many on the extremes, there are also many in the middle.
- We struggle as a country/culture – not in ideation, but in the activation of those ideas. I also agree that the government shouldn’t be put in the position to provide this care, but given the scope and complexities of the situation, there may be no better way to handle it right now. I’m not saying there aren’t better ways. But none have bubbled to the surface. If someone can come up with a better solution, and push it through, then more power to them. The hard part isn’t in the design. The hard part is gaining momentum and passage of said program.
- I do not believe that the passage of this legislation is the best solution available. But I also don’t think it is anymore socialistic than our fire or police services, Interstate Highway System, NASA, unemployment insurance, food stamps, the military, et cetera. However, many do think we’ve gone too far. I understand this. The passage of this legislation, and the transition required, is difficult. But I don’t believe we are anymore predisposed to social-democracy than we were 30, 40, 50, or 100 years ago. For many of us, this isn’t where we choose to draw a line in the sand, but I understand the threat some feel.
- I don’t have any immediate hope that, nor do I see signs of a movement in this arena, that the Church, or it’s members (Christian, Muslim, Hindu, or Atheist) will step into this void. I do wish the Church would step into this void. More importantly, I would like to see individual Christians step into the void. I believe there is a fundamental misunderstanding of what it means to “love others as much as we love ourselves.” And along these same lines, it appears that unconditional love is misunderstood. Giving to others, without expecting them to change, can be harmful (eg; giving spare change to the street-drunk), but it can also be good (eg; charity usually benefits the giver far more than the receiver – not matter who it is, or how it was provided). And certainly Jesus healed more than one ungrateful leper.
- To me, it’s important to be pragmatic. Here, we are offered a solution, that has enough momentum to at least limp across the finish line. We will probably never see anything of this magnitude again. Sadly, tt is simply too difficult to gather enough support to ever put someone on the Moon, explore the Louisiana Purchase, or effectively eliminate Polio.
Is this the end of the United States? Probably. But it didn’t start with this healthcare legislation – and it won’t end here. But we have been on the decline ever since we stopped having civil discourse. In the end, its probably about your experience, your filters, and your worldview.
But you already knew that, right?